Thanks everyone. I talked with mom again and she is excited to come up here. She said that should light a match under my sister...lol They are both stubborn and in such a small house they are going to get stressed.

I also hooked mom up with storage starting Saturday. The man was so nice and promised to take care of my mom. Small world, he worked with my cousin Tommy at Boeing so we are officially kin folk! haha I am waiting for mom to call me about a rental truck. She has to talk with her helpers down there and see what day works for everyone.

You are all the best for allowing me time to vent, think this over and come to the best decision we could. This will be trying but hopefully the state and SS will see that she is in need and help out, mainly with her health insurance.