It's been 70 hellacious days since we first found out about the tumor??!! It feels like yesterday. My baby sister has lost 20 pounds since this started. She's 34 years old, 5 feet 7 inches and weighs 95 pounds!! She already has arthritis! I hope we can all get some peace soon. I really need to be able to stop worrying about everyone and everything. We didn't get to go on the spa vacation with my mom, she wanted to go so badly. My sister wants me and her to go anyway, for my mom . I think we will need it desperately.