LH, been through many and I mean far to many of the same things as my mother..She always wanted others thoughts but she would insist on deciding
her heath problems why not she was very intellitent,when it came to her
body.. Being a nurse for 25 years,my job was to go to the Drs.allow her
to make or say no to what the Drs. had to say,if she fell she did not understand,ask him to repeat,did no understand ,walk me over to a corner of the room.I would explain it was up to her unless she asked me to speak
to the Dr.

You will take advantage of everybody's help and you so right Crohn's she
had a awful time,I couldn't be at every Dr. all the the time,but I could lay in bed take care of her at home and in the hospital..

If we couldn't find why or how bad her PN would be we would find a good
group like this,offer are help as we would except your's..You have been through pain,and PN has so many blasted reason's, I have more then I desire
different kinds oh blaaa. Your a Artist your PN and possible ct ver hard for me
can be ,well is. I can't stand those voices,I like meditations but you do need
those voices..

If people need meds, they do if they and a Dr. can work there way through that' wonderful. some people seem to get right rhrough the pain I don't,
as you say we are all different.I hope you find your own way,me I get
tired of firing Drs. Oh my mother when she got brest cancer she dicided
chemo,radiation,she wanted not to loose her hair ,this time she let the Drs.
help her..I can tell you what i'm going through,,And if you need me i'm here
at times,or leave a pm . I hope you fine what you need and your parter and
you sound strong and loving,so many don't have that. Hugs to all and excuse my hands hurt,lot's of things I must think though,and i'm tired. Sue