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Magnate
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: NW Ohio
Posts: 2,450
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Magnate
Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: NW Ohio
Posts: 2,450
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Sounds like she's a little bit of a drama queen and boyfriend/husband probably did go overboard some - some verbal abuse or rough handling. At the time she was really in a stte. But you know how it is... it wasn't enough, after sleeping on it, to make her want to leave. To give up her home.
Leaving is hard, splitting up the stuff, finding a new place, finding a new man.
Maybe in the light of day she thinks she still loves him, he really didn't mean it and mostly he's pretty good to her.
And now she wants to downplay what happened. And other girlfriends will go along with her charade - that's how some girlfriends are, and how they want you to be for them. I'm just now getting that - not really, I don't really get it lol.
You be you in this though. Do you still like this woman? I doubt she meant any harm to you. Tell her if you are confused by her actions and worried for her, that shoving this under the rug is not the way to solve it. Suggest couples therapy, and wishe her luck.
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