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Snoopy · 04-30-2008, 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Bannet

I called her out! This person constantly does this. Am I the only person that sees this????

No Beth, your not the only one who sees what this person does. Some of us just choose not to get involved

Unfortunately, this person has a whole new audience and is going to play them for all she can. She has a sickness beyond MS and she truly needs mental health intervention.

She doesn't want help, she just wants to play the pity card for all she can and make excuses - you can't help someone like that but just be thankful your not like her.

I have a friend who was dealing with abuse (not physical). Although she never asked for my help we gave it to her. She took it with tears in her eyes and has said thank you more times than I can count.

There were no stings attached to what we offerred and gave. She is still with her husband but she found the strength and courage to not put up with his bull and knows she does have other options - she said she would never have been able to do what she has done without what we have done for her

When someone really needs help and are at the bottom they will take any and all offers. The person your referring to doesn't want the help. I'm just sorry so many people get sucked in and there is no way to let others know that don't know.

Beth, let it go. There is nothing you can do