Dear Manda. To start with, here's a great big hug from me!

I'm so very sorry to hear about all those things that have been happening in your life. It's always sad to lose a family member, but a grandma is rather special, so I want you to know that I understand your pain.

My own darling daughter goes by the name of Manda too, even though we called her Amanda when she was born. My daughter is very special to me, and I'm sure that you're very special as well.

Welcome again Manda, it's so lovely to have you with us.