I agree with you MrsD but trust me in my smallish town more doctors said no than yes. So I have to just do the best I can as we have limited number of doctors and right now I do not drive so larger towns would be out of the question for me. I really don't like having my husband in the room every time either. He is depressed enough as it is with both his and my health troubles and I would tend to not ask some things with him there.