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Originally Posted by greenjeans
To answer one of your questions: When you have not had a firm diagnosis (aka: Limbo) you can't accept what it is, because there is yet to be a lable. If you ever get the dx, than I think the process to accepting can begin in a healthy way. (But could still take years based off of what others here have said)
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I do have the DX. I am choosing to get a second opinion. Not that I expect different results, just more information and a different perspective. When I ordered my old reports from my hospitilization in 2000, I saw on there MS as a dx THEN!!! I never knew they put it as a dx, but they DID tell me to follow up to rule it out, which I never did.
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Originally Posted by greenjeans
Fortunately for me my DH was never one of the ones to minimize me and did all he could to comfort me....just keep the lines of communication open there! In your post you said you thought of divorce...then later said he was a "Good Man"....that speaks volumes 
Just hang in there....and can't wait to hear how the LP went!!  |
When the divorce thought entered my mind, it wasn't anything to do with DH, so to speak, other than I was fearful for MY future and his as well, and I wanted to "save" him from that future. LOL!!! He has always been supportive, even when we did not know what was going on. But, he did tell me recently that he thought my "bad days" were overly dramatic sometimes. He apologized for ever thinking that. I told him not to worry, cause at the time, I thought I was being overly dramatic as well, and that I was just *THAT* lazy. Reall, Ihave the best man in the world (although I think you may argue that fact with me, it sounds).
Thanks for your kind words!! My thoughts are with you also, and I hope you get answers very soon! I can't imagine the not knowing. I just lived in the ignoring place for awhile.
I can't wait to hear the results of my LP either. I am going to put a bug in the neuros ear on Monday, although I know she'll call when she hears!