David - (I don't know how to post a copy correctly) Alffe said:
(((David))) It's ok to want to justify your past/present/ attempts...most of us have been there at one time or another. I do understand what you are saying but once again let me caution you...what ever this woman decides to do with her life, including if she decides to end it....it's her choice, not yours.
Very recently the therapist of someone I'm involved with said to me: "It's his decision, not yours."