I consider myself rather conservative (background sounds of my kids choking and snorting with laughter, saying "RATHER conservative??")

Every now and again a thread or post here (or on other boards) creeps toward the edge of what I find comfortable. When that happens (not often) I either try to move things in another direction if appropriate (for example, it's MY thread), or if I'm really uncomfortable, I just move on to other threads and ignore the one that bothers me.

Whether you are "guilty as charged" or not, I have no clue. I must say that I appreciate your response to whoever contacted you with a concern. You could have taken an "attitude" and been defensive, but you chose to respond in a sensitive and respectful way.