Mary Frances, Sure can relate. A few years ago I too went through the difficult divorce, and it was tough, and stressful, but in looking back, It had to be. I surely couldn't continue the way things were. Today, other than the PD, things are much better than they were back then. Guess I had to let go of what I had then to allow myself room to begin again on my own terms. God Bless! Florida Gal