Hi annidez,
Welcome to NeuroTalk!
I've posted the link to the Traumatic Brain Injury Forum below.
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum92.html
I'm so sorry for the loss of your Dad and all the trauma you've endured due to that. We also have a forum for Grief & Loss. You might want to check that forum out, too, whenever you're comfortable.
Please feel free to participate anywhere and let us know if you have any questions. Glad to have you here!