i have been seperated from my wife for 2 months and just now had the conversation that it is over and she dose not want to work things out. it has always been up untill now that she wanted to and i dont know what changed between yesterday and now but.............. im going crazy.........i have four children with her and would do any thing to to solve and learn and what ever it takes what ever but she is the one who was cheating and the one who has decided she dose not want to grow together. im 28 with 4 children and they are my life. i dont know what else to say but im getting hammered and am trying to reach out. i can only hit the ground so many times befor i cant get up. i have spent 7 years giving and giving and not receving, i'm tired, i just dont know what to do or say any more.