Thank you dotty. I can tell that your hurting,and are concerned about your children. Try to be patient with your husband. Some people don't understand in the beginning,but prove that they care down the road. Maybe he will learn how to accept the children's learning difficulties.

In your sons case,it probably has something to do with his OCD type of thing. I failed two grades,and ended up in military school,and my IQ is above average. I had reading,consentrational distraction problems,confusion,and anxiety problems when I studied. That was perceived as a possibility of non intelligence in the 50's. The teachers must not have known anything whatsoever about learning difficulties in those days.

They know now. If your children are not getting help by the school,I believe that the school is being negligent,and they know better. I'm not sure though. Don't they have councilors who can send them to specialists,who can diagnose the children's special problem,and come up with a plan on how to help the child? You can always email your congressman,and he can look into a matter. Brokenfriend