Welcome to NeuroTalk!!!
Sorry for the loss of your dear husband. Happy you have "The Kid" so you can look after each other.
Riverwild works nights, so look for her on the boards after midnight. Also Koala is usually on during those hours.
Glad to have you, da duck!!! Welcome!!!
I know this doesn't exactly fit your situation, but I like to read the "Wonder" threads. Here is the most current:
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/thread45860.html