As Sandy stated I am not getting help from my husbands command, or anyone for that matter, I have been to his superior officers, the family support counselor, the legal office, and the chaplain. I also found out today that the military will NOT ship my belongings to me like my husband said they said they only do that if you divorce while overseas. So now had to borrow money from my stepdads father to get a uhaul. I am supposed to hear from my attorney herself today it is 4 PM her time and I haven't yet apparently my husbands attorney is fighting like hell not to get a continuance in our case...probably because my husband only has leave until June 15th and doesn't want to have to come back here and face me. Oh did I forget to say that after all this crap he wants me to pay his legal fees too?