Gosh, Renee, what a slimeball he's turning out to be. He can ask for anything he wants - whether he gets it or not will be up to the courts...and I cannot imagine any judge in their right mind awarding him court costs. He's filing against you for Pete sake! If anything he should pay for yours. And I imagine he'll have to pay child support and spousal support (at least for a period of time).

I PM'ed you earlier today - not sure if you've seen it or not - but I'll help in any way I can. I'm really sorry this is happening to you. Keep your head up - and don't resort to his style of doing things 'cause he will reap what he sows.