tomorrow, I sleep ALL day, Trish, honey !!

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and NaeNae, I'm still thinking about you, and praying for you and your children...

as I recall, even though I was on SSDI, when my ex sued for custody of our son, his ATTORNEY added in that BS about me having to pay HIS attorney's fees,

I nearly blew a friggin' GASKET over that one !!

that's the modus operandi (mode of operation) of some hostile divorce attorneys...

the more ACRIMONY they create, the more paperwork and motions and hearings and STUFF, the LONGER it goes on, the HIGHER their FEES are...

it's like squeezing blood from a TURNIP when both parties are low to moderate income.

but I just wanted you to know, it's become standard boilerplate carp in the filings of some attorneys, and your soon-to-be-ex may not even have KNOWN that carp was IN there, or allowed it after being talked into it...

the judge will see through this, and disallow it, I promise.

most judges are smart, and I pray you get a good one, dear.

love, K