Welcome to the board.

WOW!! I didn't think I would ever come across anyone who's child had the same disorders as my daughter.

My daughter has mental retardation, mild CP and seizures. And now some undx'd auto immune disorder. She is 22 yrs old.
She is a very capable child(adult, I guess) Mentally she is somewhere between 8 and 40. Some days her mentallity is like an 8 yr old. Some days I wonder if she's mentally older than I am.

It sounds like you have many more challenges than I do.
My daughter is able to do most things for herself. Brushing her hair, shaving, cutting nails are some things I do for her.
She is able to do some house hold chores.

I look forward to getting to know you.

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