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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Miami, FL
Posts: 223
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Miami, FL
Posts: 223
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I live with chronic pain (talk about potential stress!) and had my first service dog for 15 years. I think it's important to realize that there's a big difference between feeling stressed yourself, and taking it out on your dog, or other animal. Poor reaction to stress is bad for all involved. A clinical psychologist can help you if you find yourself unable to manage stress.
My new dog is still young and learning all about me, and new things as they occur to me, too. If I winch and he also jumps, then I am quick to pet him and speak sweetly as soon as I can. He seems to learn quickly when I'm upset with him (he still likes to steal the toilet tissue) and when it's just life and has nothing to do with him. lol I appreciate that he is so sensitive and aware though.  They are quite resilient.
Good wishes!
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