Hello Shiela and welcome to NeuroTalk. I'm so sorry for all the trials that you're going with your husband through right now.

It must be very hard on you, and it sounds like you're not only in need of advice, but you need support as well. Thank goodness that you found us, because if there's one thing the members do well on this site, then support would have to be it.

Herekitty has given you one link, but have a look around the other forums, and join in anywhere that you feel comfortable.