I get cute printed socks, and nice nightclothes, with pretty prints on them. I live in my pj's half the time, so may as well make them pretty. I don't know if I feel "sexy" in them, as I threw the sexy part out of my life for a bit, but new makeup helps, as well as a new hairdoo. I would recommend having someone else do the "hairdoo" thing cause I tried it myself and it didn't work out too good. I also wear bright coloured wigs out in public. Perhaps they are a man repellant, but hey, I feel good in them. For me, finding what makes me feel good about myself has been more of a man magnet (not what i was going for), than trying to make myself more appealing to a man.