Hi James and welcome to NeuroTalk! I'm so sorry for the difficulties you've had since your accident.
I've posted the link to the Post Concussion Forum for you in case you haven't visited there yet. I'm sure you'll find others there who can relate to your situation. Feel free to visit any of the other forums, too. Glad to have you here!
http://neurotalk.psychcentral.com/forum92.html