I have gotten to the point of just trying to look and feel better for me. I could care less if a man finds me attractive - or anyone for that matter. If I'm happy with me then that's all that matters.

I've been widowed going on 8 years now and I do not think I will ever remarry - heck, I don't even want to date!! All my friends think I'm delusional....I'm 47 and feel like that part of my life is done. I'm not saying that it won't ever happen - I'm just not looking for it. It'll have to find me - and that won't be easy because I'm good at hiding!! Plus, I'd have to start shaving my legs everyday and that is SUCH a pain!!