Renee - my son recently went through a divorce. I don't know about your state, but he was NOT allowed to leave her without utilities, change her/their accts, etc.

I would call him and tell him...

"I have called a lawyer and he says to let you know it is against the law to change our builling accts, shut off my phone - so turn it back on - or disrupt ANY of my utilities. You WILL be charged for all of this."

Even if this is not true it will stop him, lol.

And what can he do? Say you made the whole thing up? Tough Sh!! on him.

All you have to do is say lawyer and people stop being bozos.