I just got caught up on the insights post and have to say to Renee that I am so very sorry that you are going through this.

It's not fair to you or the children.

I can't even imagine what you are going through. I'm angry for you!

I'm sure I speak for all of us when I say we're here for you!

I can't believe he was allowed to cancel accounts. Wasn't your name on any of them. Back when I got a divorce (27 years ago) he only had to pay child support so I'm not familiar with the family court system but I have to believe that you and the children should be cared for.

You can't just be thrown out into the street. I'm sure his abandonment would account for something.

Please take care of you and your children. You are in my prayers.