Idealist ~gulp~ another example of my poor writing skills. I'm sorry.
When I said that no one had spoken to me "here" I meant where I was sitting, not where I was talking - into the 'net. I meant that no one around my home or family had remembered my little anniversary or special time. I didn't mean this forum or my Internet friends.
Many thanks to you for your congratulations and support. Bless your heart - your big heart