A baby shower? This is my 3rd child but there is a 4 year gap since my last one. I also gave everything away exept the crib after my 3rd miscarrage. Would it be rude to have people come to one. I have no idea about this.

Thanks for all you help.
We might have a name change too we may keep Sarah but we have found Aimee (amy) it was Mark's Grandam's name that she wanted to name a girl but she never did.