Amen! I agree with whoever said that it is fine as long as someone throws it for you.

There were 3 years between my boys and while the highchair was still good, there were other things that got worn out like the stroller and car seats had changed to have latches to anchor them better.

I would have loved to have a shower for the second one even if it was just to celebrate his coming and bring some diapers.

My idea of a dream shower would be for everyone to bring a small gift card to Walmart or Target ($10 or $15) where you could buy baby supplies and a package of diapers (each invite would specify a different size, so that you wouldn't end up with all one size). Then, you could go buy what you need by combining the gift cards and you would have a head start on stocking up on diapers.