Thank you all so much! I already feel so much better finding people that "get it" I love my husband to death, but he can't get it. He has not been there. But at least he knows he does not get it. So thank you all! I am trying to find some way to deal with the pain. I have been getting ready for a huge flair up. I hate it my family just says to "not allow it" ya because I so choose to have pain. UGGGGGG!!!!!