Hey Sox~ I remember when we had my 2 kid's grad parties. I fretted, ran around, cleaned, fretted, cooked, baked, fretted, panicked... (did I mention FRETTED?) And, it rained on the day of both of their parties. We were set up in the big garage and guess what~~~ everything went great!
All my fretting and worrying was for naught. No one even came indoors, except a few women to use the restroom. People are coming to congratulate the Grad, not check for dustbunnies under the beds. Please don't overdo today, OK???
Everything will fall into place for you, so please PACE yourself, ask for help and make things as easy as you can on yourself.
Most importantly ~So glad your kids are all doing fine.
(PS~ when I get worked up over something, I piddle alot too; what's w/that????)