I wonder if you believe in ghosts?

I wonder why today when I was putting things in with my Dad's ashes.......
why my hand shook so violently while I was holding his dog tag trying to decide what to do, what would bring me the most peace, and what he wanted......

I wonder why, all of a sudden my hand stopped shaking and I could FEEL a slight , ever so slight, pressure ..then let go of the tag, leaving it hanging around my neck where it will remain until I too pass. ( no smiley for that!)

I wonder if I can leave a and say I wont be on tomorrow for obvious reasons, I know you understand!