Hi Roseblue
I don't belong to any religion either, and i don't follow any particular brand of faith. I don't see any difference between prayer and healing/caring thoughts. I understand what you mean, but it's such a habit for me to call it prayer.
I'll try to remember, but I may I slip up and call it prayer.
If I do, please know I am only sending you healing and caring thoughts.
Welcome to the Sanctuary.