OMG - Is the house in both your names? This sounds awful. How can a judge do such a thing! How are you supposed to know when he is going to just walk in. If you have the Order of Protection against him, then he shouldn't be allowed anywhere near you. Did you tell the court that you are in fear of him?

I got my husband off the rental lease of this house.

So, is the house being sold then? Is this from the DV case or divorce proceedings? I am confused, what else is new.

Oh, I don't know what to say. APPEAL - sounds like a good idea, I know you want to move on and get this all behind you, but how can you even do that if he has access to the house whenever he damn pleases.

I guess moving is an option for you if you can afford to. Can you get a new lawyer? Can you call a womans shelter or get a court advocate to help you. In this state, if you feel you need to move, because of fear and DV cases, they will give you some money, not a lot, but some, as long as you have a place to go. Really, I have learned a lot from the womens center, they have so many options and helpful resourses out there, that I would of never known about.

This is all too much, I feel very badly for you. But hang in there, do you feel safe?

Please take care and keep posting.

Big Hugs, Nikko