If no one goes then no one else will go. Don't be afraid, no one else will/can 'get you' any more than they can in the forums. It's not hard to keep up. If one person asks something, you just reply, no matter what someone else says. You might notice what that second person says & say something if you want to, for instance if herekitty, me & Vonn were there & Vonn answered something I said, she might notice that herekitty said something too & also write a fun joke to her about that, while or after she answers me. If you have time to read & write on the forum then why don't you have time to go to chat, if just for a little bit? You don't have to stay a fixed amount of time. The more the merrier!