Nancy!
Nancynancynancy!
One, big, warm, tight, hug, handshake and howdy, moose-size official type welcome to the site.
This place is amazing!
Guilty? No, beautiful. You are taking action to help. Never feel guilty about that.
I wish you and your family the best. We have a great support system here... for just about everything under the sun. (Even acting silly. We're real good at that

).
Rest easy and remember this;
You are not alone.
You are one of us.
And we are here to help.