I dont think anyone is "blaming" you Wixx.....

you did post this as a "question" and so all are just answering from their own perspective.

for me, the "normal" way to handle this would be to first try to find out possible reasons, rather than just telling someone to stop it or report them.
Justasking "do you have Tourette syndrome and is there a reason why you scream so loudly? I am concerned for you" should IMHO let you get an idea of what is going on


I sure DO understand how this could get to you....just trying to explain how it might be from her side too, IF this is illness or disorder related.


I guess living with a son and husband who have disorders that cause them to be very misunderstood has made me hypersensitive to the plight of others.