Thank you so much BF. It means so much to me to have my "friends" here on the site support me as much as they do. I've never had support from my family, not ever. By family I mean the one I was born into. My DH, my DD and my 2 DSS are all loving and supportive towards me, but I wonder sometimes why my sister seems to make it her life's ambition to hurt me as often and as badly as she possibly can.

I am the only sister she has. Our parents both died nearly 30 years ago, and our older brother died last month, but still she never stops. I know it's a "Power" thing because she is a controlling type of person, but it doesn't ease my pain just knowing what she's like.

There will come a day, and probably soon, where I say that I no longer have a sister and I cut all contact with her. There's only so much pain one person can take.