Hi Bannet. I was just reading all of these posts with interest.
I don't make a promise when I don't know if it's completely possible to accomplish. It depends on the promise.
Promises are iffy at best. One never knows what's comin' round the bend.
What I have the most problem with is trust. I still don't know anybody I would trust a very serious 'secret' with. I hate it when people repeat something that you've asked them NOT to share. So if I have something I don't want the general public to know, I just keep it to myself.
I hope you get this resolved.