To me this is just like saying to someone that my broken arm hurts worse than theirs. Or my head ache is worse than anyone else's.
It is impossible to say what level of stress another person can handle because only THAT person really knows.
Some people would find 7 children stressful. But others see 7 children as a small family. There is a family on TLC who are on their 18th (I believe) biological child! To me that is amazing!
I was only able to give birth twice because of medical reasons. So in my mind giving birth 7 times is beyond my comprehension.
But anyway. Why do we all who have medical issues know one size does not fit all yet the more educated doctors think it all has to be by the book?
LA
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Originally Posted by momXseven
That's what I was thinking also.
I get ALL kinds of "looks and questions" from Dr.'s about having 7 kids, even if they were planed from Dr.'s that are NOT my OBGYN's and if I'm "happy" with having all of them.  Most of them just tell me that having so many is too much stress for me.  |