my mother has been undergoing a series of tests for the last 6 months for what has finally led to a dxd of ovarian cancer found through evidence of the cancer cells. She has had horrid back pain, and abdomanal bloating. she is 81 years old.

today she gets more fluid drained and more tests run. tomorrow is the consultation. what i would like to ask you guys is if anyone has gone through this? what questions do i need to ask? what courses should be considered, and what risks are there in these courses? i am going to bring a hand help tape recorder as my syblings are basket cases.

any advice, suggestions would be helpful. thanks