So, they say God works in mysterious ways. Guess what? My mom will not be coming to live with us after all.

My mom, although scared to live on her own just signed for a one bedroom apartment where my grandmother once lived! Social security came through and she will be drawing off my stepdad who passed away two years ago. She is making enough money to cover her Cobra and life insurance, as well as rent. The apartment is an income based apartment through a private owner, with HUD helping.

It's scary for her, but we think she will be happier living on her own. My Aunt Hasteen (how's that for an old name?) lives in the same apartments. So, mom will have plenty of friends and family to help her get groceries and such. Of course if she runs low financially, Jim and I will help her. I've already offered to pay for her phone and cable so we'll see. All utilities other than cable and phone are covered in her rent.

I was excited that she was coming to stay with us but I am even more excited that she can keep all of her stuff and feel independent. That is what is most important.

Thank you to everyone who prayed and sent supporting thoughts our way. That big man (or woman) upstairs does work miracles. I never doubted that, even for a minute.