We are only about 15 miles apart, but he is legally blind and can't drive, so I have to do all of the driving. I do it mostly on the weekends any more, or sometimes on my way home from work when necessary. I figured if I moved permanantly to moms, he would eventually miss me enough to tough it out with her, but that hasn't been the case. I gambled and lost cause He's enjoying his solitude. But somebody had to do something, I couldn't just leave her alone. We would have been arrested for elder abuse or something.
Thanks for your interest.
Idas