Well said Ellie!!
Bravo to all who participated in this thread! Sometimes I was moved to post ... but not enough... as my energy and spirit has been drained lately... so I'd read... leave for a while, come back... and as I kept reading... I realized, I didn't need to post... because someone here had already voiced my thoughts or explained or asked the quesions I was thinking. So nice to see the respect!

xo Addy