NaeNae?

may I offer a somewhat obnoxious, but certainly well-meant suggestion?

maybe you can change your user-name here at NeuroTalk, as a first step?

it'll be a start on your new journey of defining yourself, not as someone's "wife" but as YOURSELF, a brave, strong, thoughtful, loving, and kind woman, and a good mother.

maybe the bosses of this board will let you keep all your toys, if they can do that, things like your PMs, and friend-lists, and post-count... and just do a name-switch ??

I work at another board, but it's by "phpBB" - it's pretty simple for me to do name-changes there, for my users...

this board is vBulletin, so I don't know how easy it is, or if it's even possible, or if Admins have the time, but... it wouldn't hurt to ask...