That's the hard part. Being on Hospice, they determined that she had 6 mos. or less to live. So I figured I could handle things for that long. But I'ts been four months,(although I have been living here since last November) and she seems to be doing pretty well. They tell me that this is how it goes though, they wax and wane. Then just when they seem to be doing well, they suddenly take a turn for the worse. So it seems frivolous to go through all the costs and stress of moving him right now. I also know that togeather, all they do is stress each other out (and me). Im in a catch 22. Stressed if I do and stressed if I don't. But, I sighned up for this, so what can I say, Just to talk to all of you folks helps somehow.
Thanks for your suggestions.
Idas