Thank you Momma and amen to all that. Jim and I are some of the youngest forced to give up that part of our life. Oh, the intimacy is there and it will always be there but the actual act is pretty much out the window so to speak. And you know what? That's OK for me and for Jim. We have so much more to our relationship than sex. If sex was all there was we would not be here 23 years later.

But don't get me wrong. Sex was a big part of our younger years. But it's never been what holds us together.

What I am trying to say is many times I have been asked how I can live without sex at my age? I simply say it's not what our relationship is built on. Period. No other explanation. Or maybe it's because Jim married a woman who could live with it or without it? Either way, it's all good.

Now when we ask aunght to, it's usually to go to the store or local eatery. lmao