Oh BF, I am so sorry, just when you thought someone was serious too. I know you're hurting now, I wish I could offer more then a cyber hug, but that's all we can do in 2D other then offer our sympathetic ears and shoulders.
I agree with Alffie, better you found out now rather then later though.
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I love my family, my friends, (this means YOU!) my cat, my nails, my Necchi sewing machine and my turtle!
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