Idealist, sometimes I hear something and the first thing that runs through my mind is that I must tell my husband....and he died ten years ago. I have trouble watching the "lord of the Rings" movies because, though I love them, Wes would have loved them more...and I feel guilty for enjoying something that he would have loved. I think I am okay and then something tiny knocks me down again... I still feel married...so much so that , though I have been trying to put my wedding ring away...I just can't yet.
I have some of those symptoms on that list...but not so many as I used to have...so maybe that is progress.