I was getting discouraged again for the lack of response on this group but alas I am reminded that things that matter take time. Grateful I am for the responses that did come thru. Hmmm Lol, maybe I'm a thread killer..who knows. I was going to give up like it seems a lot of people have done - peace be with you. I use to be a part of a 12step group and the thing I loved about it was that if one group didn't work - you had the freedom to create one that did work for you - how cool is that. I had someone very dear to my heart commit suicide a number of years ago and learned quickly, life is too short to sweat the small stuff. Anyhoo, I come here for my own sanity and look forward to chatting with those who enter in the future. To all those readers

Namaste~